Friday, March 30, 2007

Women - blind your men...

Ladies - it seemed like oedipus rex had the right idea when he gouged his eyes out.
This is just too much...
After posting the thing about censorship and how flick is going all "purtitanical' on our asses, this was the icing on the cake.

Flirting women affect how men view mates: study
Last Updated: Friday, March 30, 2007 3:44 PM ET


CBC News
Men are more likely to think less of their partner after exposure to flirtatious women, according to a study published this month that puts a new twist on human mating behaviour.
The paper, which appears in the March issue of the journal Evolution and Human Behavior, is the first to show that one woman's behaviour can affect how a man views other women, including his partner.

Previous studies had shown men rated their partners lower after they were exposed to images of attractive women, said lead author and University of Lethbridge graduate student Sandeep Mishra.

While Mishra and two colleagues from McMaster University were unable to replicate those exact results, they were able to show that flirtatious behaviour could produce a similar reaction in men.

In one of the two experiments, the 87 male and 66 female test subjects watched a video of members of the opposite sex being interviewed and asked questions about politics and other non-sexual subjects.

Unbeknownst to the subjects, some of the interviewees were asked to behave in a more socially open manner by looking directly into the camera, smiling often and acting as if the viewer was the centre of attention. Other subjects viewed the interviewees behaving in a bored and disinterested manner.

The subjects were then asked to rate the attractiveness of their own partners, or, if they were single, to rate the attractiveness of other members of the opposite sex.
Men's ratings of their current partners and unattached men's rating of other women were both lower if they had viewed the more socially open videotape interviewee.
The relative openness of male interviewees had no effect on women subjects.

Results support evolutionary theory
Mishra told CBC News Online the results support theories of evolutionary psychology on the different ways in which men and women historically looked for partners.
"Women are less likely to respond to signals of intent because they are more exposed to them than men are," said Mishra. "Historically females also benefit most from finding one high quality partner, so their opinion of their partner is less likely to be swayed by exposure to an attractive male."

Reproductive success for men, on the other hand, has historically been contingent on finding and mating with a large number of females, said Mishra. But he cautions this behaviour, while fitting with evolutionary psychological theories, does not determine how an individual will or should act. "This doesn't mean that what is natural in biological terms is necessarily good," he said. "People still have the ability to make choices."

He suggests more awareness of these tendencies can be useful for people in relationships.
"When a man goes out and experiences these twinges of feelings, he should know there is a reason for it, and that it may not be because he is unhappy," he said. "These behaviours can be superseded and don't have to shape the way we behave."
what the bloody hell..??

coffee and cigarettes

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Wednesday, March 21, 2007

THEY LIKE ME! THEY REALLY LIKE ME!!!

I was bored out of my mind, waiting for the ativan to take effect - slow my mind and loosen my body when I came across this.

Just for kicks, every once and a while I google myself.
And *bonus* - I don't feel the need for a cigarette after doing so!


(you have to scroll down to the end to see the guy's article...)

Eighth Annual Interational Erotic Art Exhibition

Detroit
On February 11th, 2007, Stabler says:
Detroit, Bert's Warehouse Theater, Saturday Night:

The 8th annual Dirty Show saw a large turnout for Saturday night. The venue, Bert's Warehouse Theater, was exactly that, a warehouse turned into a theater, ostensibly owned by a fellow amed Bert.

Erotic art, mixed media, photography, sculpture, video productions, and live burlesque acts were to be had for everyone's viewing pleasure. And there was something for everyone indeed. The mixed age and race crowd were able to view scenes of carnal delights among men and women, men and men, women and women, and combinations of all three. No fetish was left unrepresented, bondage, domination, body modification, and urination abounded in all forms---even walking among the spectators. Two full service cash bars kept inhibitions loose.

Highlights include:

H.R. Giger's xenoerotic art

Len Von Speedcult's lace steelwork sculpture of a headless, tattooed woman "Flaming Woman"

Kathy Slamen's portrait "My Side" an 11x14 print eerily featuring 10" of negative space.

portraits of topless women made out of lego pieces

Spoken word performance by Detroit underground legend Jimmy Doom

"Clit Tube" a phallic tube with triangular openin, upon looking in one was treated to kaleidoscopic pornography films

In all, a pleasurable (read, hedonistic) way to view art as well as debate the question "Art or porn"


Holy F*%K!
I'm in the same company as Gieger!
Too funny.
And just when I was going to retire my camera for good, and get a full time job stuffing handbags in a factory...

Tuesday, March 20, 2007

stress

stress

akk

my stomach feels like it's housing the cirque du soleil

picking up the mats and frames now.

Business and postcards tomorrow.


Cha-ching
cha-ching! Fly little brown and pink bills* - it's nice and windy outside.
Leave quickly before I change my mind!!


*brown Canadian bill- 100$
* pink Canadian bill- 50$

pix of my bod on the walls of some club in nyc sans clothes?

priceless...

Shadow Walking


Shadow Walking
Originally uploaded by Tomitheos.
This is my good friend Tom. He is taking his cat Nipsy for her last walk. She died yesterday. She was 19 and her health began to deteriorate quickly over the past month.

This image is so bittersweet. I can imagine the pain and sadness that overcomes somebody when the enviable passing of a furry friend because it's happened to me. After those moments that ripped my heart to pieces, I vowed never to get another cat again - because it just hurt too much to say goodbye, but in my house run two 7 year old cats whom I adore. Their death is the furthest thing from my mind right now, even though I know that someday I too will have to say goodbye.

Tom, I weep as I type this. I am so very very sorry for your loss. Nipsy was a gift of love and light, and I am so happy I had a chance to see her, and understand what you meant when you said she was special.

May she rest in peace, and may your pain lessen as each day passes.

Saturday, March 17, 2007

coming along

getting more framing done.

And it's costing me a flipping arm and a leg.

some dude in westmount (should have known) was going to charge me 80$ a frame for a 12x16! Mat and glass.
C'est tout.

And he was an arrogant SOB.

I was about to weep away my woes into a tall laté when the colorful sign caught my eye - another framing shop across the street - next to the Starbucks
arc en ciel

which means rainbow in French

and there was a pot of gold inside...

Better prices, better service and better energy.

So I left my babies behind, walked out and took a huge breath -

in goes faith, out goes fear

and I came home to see that my bill for the b.cards and p.cards is going to amount to $500.

YIKES!

but as E said: "How many people do you know have a solo show in NYC?"

True.

A week on a beach in Cuba would have been nice, but unless Castro kicks the communist bucket, that beautiful country will still be around next year.



Tuesday, March 13, 2007

My tickle tests

It's not that I believe these tests, I just find it amusing to see what a computer program and its tabulations has made of 'me'.


The Classic IQ Test
- Word Warrior

What's Your Comfort Zone? Mover 'n' Shaker
What's Your Best Quality? Creative
What Zodiac Sign Should You Be Scorpio
What's Your Sense of Humor? Goofy Humor
How Bright Is Your Aura? White
The 5-Factor IPIP Personality Personable
What's Your Superpower? Communication

do salami on charles

More spam-a-lam-found-prose.


(I'm stressing too much now. I'm supposed to go into work 2mrw and pick up slack that somebody has left stewing for two days... Grrrrr. I won't be very pretty tommorow...)


trauma uncertain
And there appears to be a grown man calling himself 'Boo' in the game ,

Achieve Your Purpose in Life
probable to relieve pain. This is called tolerance to the medicine

Bill says we're out to outlaw Christmas.
Your Ticket to Success

long-term midriff

I will try to update this more often.

ambiguously
incoming

prospect
We won the Cross county by a mile.
After 15 minutes the chairman of the council said, We must erect this sculpture.
But those divisions also cross party lines.
If not, you should probably read it first.

consecrate
incubation period competence
scrappy
rejoicing grunge

Ernesto Mcfarland is digital
below exemplary

Are You Truly Beautiful?
by zero
it is democracy
nauseated because of
rueful

registration roulette
Find the Right Path

Stepping-Stones to Success
you go uncouth
The quicklime on ingrown

New comment on In my ears this week.
characteristic capsules all over the world
indulge vacation conservative

cellulose stockpile
Jesse medication all over the planet!

In logo colombo

do salami on charles
do sports

Monday, March 12, 2007

My graceful exit


My graceful exit
Originally uploaded by hellophotokitty.
I'm going to be very busy over the next few weeks.
I've stressed myself so much that I'm going to the hospital demain - might be walking pneumonia or something else.

These damm ovaries are acting up as well...

I'm hoping it's nothing serious, and if it is, it can be corrected quickly with minimum side effects.

So I will make my graceful exit, and hopefully return refreshed, rejuvinated and another year older, and wiser...

you have earned your wings
now go out and fly...

still

still

sick
worried
weak
God-fearing
paranoid
scared
wanting
confused


still


doubting
lost
hungry
wondering



still


hoping
deciding
expecting
forgiving
deceiving
lying
running
grieving


closed for business
open for business


still bankrupt
still spent
still drained

endless movement and noise can never


still


me

Friday, March 09, 2007

how it all started

in roughly two weeks from now, I'll be having my first solo exhibition in new york city.

my first solo expo - anywhere.
And it happens to be in new york

correction: I made it possible to be in New York...

This was an email I sent to the manager of Madame X, and her reply follows.

I can't believe this is actually going to happen (well, knock on wood and pray like hell).

And just to think, it was a year in October when I made my way to New York for the first time, and when I drove by Madame X (and almost crashed Kit's car in the process...)



Monday, July 24, 2006 12:22 PM

Hi Karen,
I don't know if you got my phone message last week - I had spoken with Amy a little while ago and she told me to speak with you about the logistics of putting on a show - times, space etc. She also mentioned about the 'promotional logistics' to me, which I am totally okay with. That is why I was wondering if you had anything in the spring available - april would be the best (I don't know if I mentioned it to you, but the 4th is my birthday and that would be the most memorable birthday of my life!!!) if it's at all possible, and the other main reason being that it would give me enough time to put together some press kits and promo material to be able to distribute to the local galleries, dealers, papers etc.


I don't want to do a rush job seeing as I want this event to be special, and at this point, my graphic designer is booked up until late October.

I hope you understand where I'm coming from, and that this does not put my potential exhibition in jeopardy :-(

I will be free at the end of the week, so if you would like to contact me during the day, I should be home.

Hope to talk to you soon, and have a great week.

K





Tue, 25 Jul 2006 23:59:32 -0400
K,

I would love to have you do a show at Madame X and next spring would be fine. I do have some concern about the logistics because you are so far away. Would it be possible to speak by phone? (I do not have daily access to my e-mail.) You said you are available later in the week. A good time for me to talk would be this Thursday, late afternoon. Is 2 or 3pm on the 27th good for you? E-mail me your phone number & I can call you then.

If that's not convenient, just send me an e-mail and we'll work out another time.

And don't worry, I do understand where you are coming from. The way I see it, you are a professional who is willing to do the necessary work to make your show memorable. That will hardly jeopardize your having an exhibit with us.

I look forward to hearing from you.

-Karen

Thursday, March 08, 2007

And the skies tell me...

Aries forecast for Thursday, March 8, 2007

You may feel as if you are standing at the edge of something new. You could, in fact, begin a most exciting venture now, for you have a good feeling about what is happening and you are ready to play your part. Be as adventurous as you wish. It's time to live outside the constraints of negativity and have yourself some fun.

I feel as if I am standing on the edge of a very high building and I'm about to toss my biscuits.

I'm so stressed right now - the show is going up soon, and the wheels are in motion.
Sent the prints out today to the lab.

(hell - if I can't show myself to the lab technicians, how do I expect to show it to the public?)
well, New York is New York and not the small village this city is.

And old war vet buddy of mine has stepped up to the plate to help me design the postcard/buisness cards. Thank God for my boobalah!

We worked together when I was a medical photographer. We were both abused there, but he is stronger than I am. He's been in that relationship for 10 + years! But then again, they have a really good dental plan and pension...

Off to photoshop some more images and create a press kit.

time to have some more fun!!

Monday, March 05, 2007

Shadows of a film noir...

A teaser from the night at the Leeland hotel in Detroit...

I've been too sick to follow up with part 2 of the story, so I'm adding some pictures to stir the pot...

The ban has been lifted!

and so the ban on my flickr account has been lifted!!!
Yea!!

But why am I not so thrilled?

It's one step into the direction of bowing to the censorship kerfuffle of big brother Yahoo.
People who have been NISPA (not intended suitable in some public areas) means that either they've shown too much breast or butt. Funny, I've seen people who's streams consist of nothing but T&A and nothing has happened to them! Go figure.

Luck of the draw.
There are so many out there, I was just one of the unlucky few.

And go figure - I was one of the whistle blowers - reporting the hard core porn that ran rampant on that site, and that's the thanks I get! NISPA'D!

NISPA'd also means that you're not searchable - if somebody types in my name, they won't be able to find me. I have a general "block' on my stuff.

And why should I care?

I honestly can't give you an answer to that, and I don't even know why I wanted to be un NISPA'd.

This damn cold is clouding my judgment.

Still sick after two weeks - now going onto three.

Time is beginning to tick away - countdown to Madame X exhibition.

Am I nervous?

Holy crap yea.

Thursday, March 01, 2007

could not come too soon

I received another testimonial on flickr today.
It will take a few hours for it to go 'live' but had to document the joyous moment here first.

Photography is a self-centered guilty pleasure. Aside from the odd assignment, I often take pictures for myself, and often (well, not too much latley) of myself, but when a photo is able to reach out, strike a chord with somebody, change their life in the most minute way, I feel as if my quest to pursue photography as a life path is not in vain.

which reminds me - the vernisage for the McGill 'diversity' show is tonight. It would have been a good thing for me to be there, talk about my 'blue' series, but I'm still too sick. The farthest I'm going to make it is the medical clinic a few metro stops away. But I'll be able to hang out with the organizers during my lunch break - answer any questions first hand as people walk by: students, profs, workers around the university.

Insomniac_Goddess says: "HPK is a constant inspiration. A keen eye for natural and architectural beauty, the human form, and an ability to render emotion and ring it out of every pixel. Her work is often a reminder that it is the journey, not the destination, that counts. I'm so grateful to have been introduced to her and her work and wish her the best of luck in all her endeavors. Muah! :)"

that really makes my day...